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依基本定義，官殺是剋我，
可代表非常常的多，
依您的八字，劫比如此的強旺，並且無官殺制之，又無大運，
投資stock錢只是給別人當零用錢而己。因為是劫財。別人劫您的財，並不是您去劫別人的財。

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是啦,我是想了解官殺,是不是真的剋我的男友, 年柱是解父母,是不是他的父母剋他
他的兄損他的財??

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對於六親看法，從星和宮下手，
您的八字，官殺是忌神，
夫宮是劫，且子丑合官，官剋劫，但合官，
二個真的需要好好的溝通，協調。

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I totally think so. We always argue on a very little issue.
Sometime I don't even know why we are argue.

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這個問題在下從命理角度與您談談：
您的月提是印，透二印，代表您這個人比較屬於靜態的人，但思想複雜，想得太多，無變通，並且印是洩官殺，官殺代表男友或先生，您是會去管男友或先生的個性的，您看看有任何男人會受得住：一個女人成天的想來想去，又管來管去的嗎？
所以最主要的原因，這您八字上所帶來的個性的問題。
與男友的相處要合於男友的個性上相配合，否則，成天只為一些不知所以小事在吵，這不是頭殼壞掉嗎？
套用日本連續劇的一句話：要幸福喔。這是與男友相處最高原則，與此原則相沖都無效，都不去考慮不去想。

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thankyou very much. you are right. Finally i have the excuse for my personality. my boyfriend and I both have a problem which we like to discussss our decision and argue who is right or wrong. i guess you are right i have to respect his own choice and own life. he also have to understand my decision. e.g I ask him not to come back hk this year since in next year he will get his p.r status. he won't listern.
要幸福, i want to , but I am not sure he is the right guy.??? since he got laid off.
these days i am very busy. i worked till 7:30pm . very tired. no energy to reply you.

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新的工作新的環境，當然要時間適應，依在下的經驗至少要一年以上的時間。
至於男生是否為Mr. Right，應您自己決定，
但如何決定，在下的想法供您參考：您與他的在一起是否心甘情願。再一次，誠實的問自己，真的心甘情願的跟他在一起。
如果不是心甘情願，就一定不要強在一起，否則對雙方都是不好的。

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Acutally I plan to find another job. Although I have worked for less than a month, i feel that there won't be a lot of skill or space which i could develop since this job only require for F5 education. Plus, the boss are 'famous rich people' who only like buy luxury car or join car-racing, so the business aren't going anywhere.
of course, since i get back home so late, I have no energy to search another job. I guess after several weeks I could get some time to do it.
About my boyfriend, it is so strange that several months ago, I really want to get married with him. However, now after working several weeks my answer is 'no'. I don't miss him at all. I even forgot about his existence. We don't talk to each other for 2 weeks. Even we talk, our topics are getting boring and norrow. I guess it may be he lost his job and stay home. I don't have the energy to speak so much .
心甘情願, !!. I always regret (not 100%) about sticking with him in last 8-9 years. We had a lot of of good memory together, but is it enought for me to expect we will have the same in the future? I totally doubt it.
Actually, It is very strange. Everyone including my parent and friends is saying that I should find a better one.
I cannot say i totally 心甘情願 to get married with him. However, I don't want to say to seperate at this moment. He is alone over there. i guess it isn't a good moment. Plus sometimes we are good friends, even though sometime we are big enemy.
I understand I have lot of difference with him, but he won't listern. I told him several times that we would seperate especially when we have big argument. He didn't believe.
I guess the main decision is on me whether i can stand the argument with him or not. If i can stand it, then the marriage would last. If not, it will break it.
ah... it seems like everyone has the same problem and decision especially those couples who always argue.

I guess I would let it go for another 1 - 2 years to see what would happen.
I know he loves me, but he won't listern to me in some of his big decisions. of course at the end I am right on these decision. the outcome on him isn't good. That's why i am mad about him. ah...

Thanks for talking with me.