Who would like to tell me how about my marriage, the present and future? How can I do for a happy family life?
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I have studied 8 words for years. I believe that everyone has his lessons to learn in his life . However, I also believe that it is not wise for people to attribute all kinds of failure or unhappiness to their own 8 words,

I would like to try my best to help you out though I don't know if it will work.

Let's try to set your 8 words aside for a while. We will review it later on.

First of all, I would like you to think about the following questions.

1.Can you list the top 3 reasons that caused you to marry with your current husband before?

2.Also, Can you list the top 3 reasons why you want to get out of this marriage ?


3.Do you learn the lessons from current marriage ? What are they ?
Would you please to share with us ?


4.Also, Can you think about three critical factors that make a happy couple? What factors are missing in your marriage ?

5. Is there any chance that you want to try more and thus make your current marriage a better one ?

You don't need to answer those questions in a hurry. Allow yourself more time to think about those questions. I will come here every day one week from now. After that, I will have a 3 months retreat to go. So, I might not be able to help you after March 10.


If you don't feel comfortable to answer those questions in public, you are welcomed to e-mail me to my account in this web site. With my limited experience and knowledge, I certainly have blind spots

I think that the more information you disclose to the public, the more likely you will get your questions answered. After all, three heads are better than one head. ^-^


Good luck

Tainan Boy

There are some good thinking in this topic. You may look into it to see if it helps.
http://destiny.xfiles.to/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=talk&Number=54021&fpart=1&PHPSESSID=