Hi TAINAN BOY:
I admire your attitude to better understand the destiny trend of your daughter. This is the right attitude to do research. I also believe your daughter is so lucky to have you. With knowledgeable parents like you, she is certainly blessed.
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謝謝的鼓勵和為我兒的祝福.

Without guidance of any great master can delay the learning process. But it will broaden your judgement base and you will not be restricted in any thinking of other people. This is essentially important for a man who has indiviudual thinking.
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這祇是興趣而已,加上希望能多方面的思考命理理論,不拜師,只因外婆亦從事之命理行業,曾跟她學習過,但她是神煞為主,跟我想從格局,用神的研究方向不同,所以就自己研讀,想了解各論派之間的差別,亦擔憂自己會陷入門派之見,變得不客觀,這樣的情形有好有壞ㄚ!廢話一堆,請見諒.

I also have one son. And just like you are doing now, I also tried to find out the best way to educate him from his 8 words and dou-su. By doing this, I hope his potential can be fully utilized in the future. Like many parents, I also wanted to give him a good name in order to bring him good luck. But to help him success,I believe this part of effort is just part of contributing factors. I also realized there are so many factors that can lead him fail or make him unhappy. For example, the environment he is in will certainly have great impacts on him. We probably can not control what will become in our environment. But we certainly can help to create a better one or not to make one worse.
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這都是因為愛子心切,並不為過.從命理得知如何去教育她,是怕為人父母者無法給她大多,只希望她在成長階段能夠平平安安的就好,其實做為父母者,除了讓她衣食無憂之外,更重要的是與孩子有個互動關係,勝於給她一座金山銀山好,我很同意你的看法,環境是影響孩子發展的因素,雖然我們沒辦法去控制這些外在因素,至少我們可以給她一個良好的學習環境,其後的發展就必須靠她自己,這也正是我現在需學習的地方,同時我亦祝福你兒,願他過得快快樂樂.

In terms of timing, I think now probably is the best time for you to build up the relationship with her. A child who can feel love from his parents or care givers is certainly in a better shape to move to next stage. In addition, you can help her by providing a enriched environment. Before she has fully grown up, you still have plenty of time to do the reserch on her 8 words. Right now, it may not be critical to know her 8 words in detail. If you truely believe in 8 words, you should believe in the principle of cause and effect. That is the part we can work on it. Do you agree ?
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嗯!很同意你的看法,該是好好跟她培養親子關係的最好階段,畢竟親子之愛,是孩子發展健全人格的關鍵之一,把命理研究做為興趣是一件好事,倘若卻因此陷入其框,無法跳出其所羈絆.迷失,那便失去研究命理之意義了

Sorry for any distraction that I possibly have made in your topic. And I respect all the comments you have received here. And I also have learnd a great deal from the posted articles. I believe every one is offering their best to answer your question.

To me, right or not right is not the point.
The point is: ( Through the interaction process)
1. what do we learn to be a better communicator
2. what do we learn to be a more open minded person.
3. what do we learn to help people becoming a better person.

謝謝你的建言,我同意你的論點,試著學習做一位傳導者,開導者,引導者,勝於斷人吉兇富貴還來的重要,但這可能需要論命者與被論命者的相互配合吧!

Sorry,太久沒寫英文了,怕寫出來不成文法,反讓你更是一頭霧水,只好用中文回答,希望你別介意!!