迷惑者 大大,

I admire your attitude to better understand the destiny trend of your daughter. This is the right attitude to do research. I also believe your daughter is so lucky to have you. With knowledgeable parents like you, she is certainly blessed.

Without guidance of any great master can delay the learning process. But it will broaden your judgement base and you will not be restricted in any thinking of other people. This is essentially important for a man who has indiviudual thinking.

I also have one son. And just like you are doing now, I also tried to find out the best way to educate him from his 8 words and dou-su. By doing this, I hope his potential can be fully utilized in the future. Like many parents, I also wanted to give him a good name in order to bring him good luck. But to help him success,I believe this part of effort is just part of contributing factors. I also realized there are so many factors that can lead him fail or make him unhappy. For example, the environment he is in will certainly have great impacts on him. We probably can not control what will become in our environment. But we certainly can help to create a better one or not to make one worse.

In terms of timing, I think now probably is the best time for you to build up the relationship with her. A child who can feel love from his parents or care givers is certainly in a better shape to move to next stage. In addition, you can help her by providing a enriched environment. Before she has fully grown up, you still have plenty of time to do the reserch on her 8 words. Right now, it may not be critical to know her 8 words in detail. If you truely believe in 8 words, you should believe in the principle of cause and effect. That is the part we can work on it. Do you agree ?

Sorry for any distraction that I possibly have made in your topic. And I respect all the comments you have received here. And I also have learnd a great deal from the posted articles. I believe every one is offering their best to answer your question.

To me, right or not right is not the point.
The point is: ( Through the interaction process)
1. what do we learn to be a better communicator
2. what do we learn to be a more open minded person.
3. what do we learn to help people becoming a better person.


Sincerely


Tainan Boy