Hi:

I suggest that you post more of your personal experience and facts regarding to your marriage. Then, people will be much easier to give their advice from different perspectives, not just from destiny point of view.

In your case, Water is strong, Earth is strong, and Fire is not weak. When they fight with each other, who will compromise ?

However, how to make best use of the "chia" wood that hide in the" hi" water in your 8 words and Yi wood in your current fourtune periord will be most critical to you.

In your case, wood means "in" that stands for absorbing new knowledge and religion. So, you may try to look into these areas to see if they are helpful to you.

In fact, I seldom belive in the concept of hurting wife or hurting husband. If it do exist, there is no use of believing in the principle of cause and effect. But I do believe that people may not always find their best match at their first love or first marriage. As you may know, 50 % of Americans, according to my observation and talking to my American friends,are having thier second marriage. Will they think themselves hurting wife or hurting husband? I think the answer is probably not. So, just don 't be so discouraged by your first marriage.

Nowadays, I know it won't be easy to be a working woman. In most cases, they need to play the roles as a house keeper, bread earner, and sometimes primary child care provider. It just looks like the candles that are burning from two ends. The more education the woman receive, the more likely she can not accept her loading once his significant other is not considerate. Therefore, if man can not adjust their traditional concept as a house chief, the conflicts will
become inevitable. Is this the root casue of so many unhappy marriage ?


I need to go to work now. Write to you later.

Tainan Boy