Hi CCL, thank you so much for your explanation. I know that there are many things unfavorable in my 8 pillars for relationship. However I really want to try to prevent this by being more cautious with my interaction with others. I also believe that you can change your 命 if you really try. However, when it involved another person, then it's hard to know what the outcome will be. My boyfriend and I are very happy together and are very compatible in every way. The problem is that I don't know if he will get married this year or not. He is going back to his country to meet a lot girls that his parents found for him. And there is a possibility that he may get engaged/married in the next 2 months. Is there any indication that he may get engaged this year from his 8 pillars? I think this relationship is too precious to give up.