This is a blunt response to your eight pillar.

There are three things I see unfavorable to marriage:

1)日坐傷官。
2)巳亥沖（especially between day and month pillar)
3)己巳-日刃，暗剋(hidden crash between day stem and branch)

As I mentioned these are the quick and obvious things that stand out in your eight pillar. Others could tell you more.

By the way, don't let the "parents thing" prevent another happy marriage.

Parents have the rights to guide and advise but not decide the fate of their children. 兒孫自有兒孫福。
But yet again, you ought to know each other better instead of taking the plunge.
Refrain from anything physical because that could affect your rationality in making a sensible decision.

All the best.