>> How come i always "know" someone that like to talked behind me (very very bad things, like gossip)? How can i avoid these things happen?
- because of jealous, can't be avoid.
You like a book, open to read, simple and easy going, but your "best" friend won't treat you in the same way. The only thing you can do is take it easy, forgive and forget what they did.
-the very very bad things they talk about is the relation between you and the guys rite? some dirty things from their diry mind?
time proof
異性緣深很自然同性緣淺, 你對別人沒有企圖不代表別人對你不是另有用心
>>now the situation is that some of my friends believe in her and they start to hate me.
- when the others know nothing about you, they will believe in what your "Best" freind said, that's human nature. You must repositioning this gal, she is your friend or not? A real frenid won't betray you.
>>3 kinds of female friends in my life, one is trying to hurt me, one is do nothing to me, one is trying to help me, is it true?
- it's always true, cos it's a generic model:
just like someone asked "how's you day?" the answer will be
Good - one is trying to help me
Bad - one is trying to hurt me
so so - one is do nothing to me
Be a happy gal
- because of jealous, can't be avoid.
You like a book, open to read, simple and easy going, but your "best" friend won't treat you in the same way. The only thing you can do is take it easy, forgive and forget what they did.
-the very very bad things they talk about is the relation between you and the guys rite? some dirty things from their diry mind?
time proof
異性緣深很自然同性緣淺, 你對別人沒有企圖不代表別人對你不是另有用心
>>now the situation is that some of my friends believe in her and they start to hate me.
- when the others know nothing about you, they will believe in what your "Best" freind said, that's human nature. You must repositioning this gal, she is your friend or not? A real frenid won't betray you.
>>3 kinds of female friends in my life, one is trying to hurt me, one is do nothing to me, one is trying to help me, is it true?
- it's always true, cos it's a generic model:
just like someone asked "how's you day?" the answer will be
Good - one is trying to help me
Bad - one is trying to hurt me
so so - one is do nothing to me
Be a happy gal
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心平何勞持戒,行直何用修禪; 恩則孝養父母,義則上下相憐; 讓則尊卑和睦,忍則眾惡無喧; 若能鑽木取火,淤泥定生紅蓮; 苦口的是良藥,逆耳必是忠言; 改過必生智慧,護短心內非賢; 日用當行饒益,成道非由施錢; 菩提只向心覓,何勞向外求賢; 聽說依此修行,西方只在目前。
心平何勞持戒,行直何用修禪; 恩則孝養父母,義則上下相憐; 讓則尊卑和睦,忍則眾惡無喧; 若能鑽木取火,淤泥定生紅蓮; 苦口的是良藥,逆耳必是忠言; 改過必生智慧,護短心內非賢; 日用當行饒益,成道非由施錢; 菩提只向心覓,何勞向外求賢; 聽說依此修行,西方只在目前。
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