hmm, i have 1 bigger sister , she is 3 years older than me, and 1 smaller brother , he is 2 years younger than me, at first, in HK, we are not that close (won't go to shopping together), but after we moved to LA, we become closer and closer, we become friends. However, this year, my brother becomes very rebellious, maybe because of purity?? , and we argue a lot.

Also, i know i am not pretty, but my personality is more like boys than girl. For instance, i like to watch sports (NBA, baseball, tennis, etc) and i DON"T like gossip and talk on phone for more than 1 hour.... And, i am kind of like a idiot on "love" , i won't feel a guy like/interested in me until he like me for more than 6 months... Anyways , thanks for your advice , Ralph , i am strongly appreciated that.

About the people than talk behind me, they like to talk about my relationships with other "male" friends. But, i don't have any interest on them.