Wait a second, 我大女兒命宮有擎羊星... but I'm sure she'll never be my 小人。

My ex helps a lot in offering transportation for them even when I'm in town. And my 12 yoa also has been a good helper around the house. It sounds like your hubby doesn't help you with your kid?
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cw1986: I see. That's why you don't need a nanny. My husband helps a lot, but he just got a promotion and works longer hours now. We have trouble arranging pickups and dropoffs for my daughter. Also, my health and energy level have been declining since I had my daughter in 2008.