回cheebyemonster:<br />oo...i guest i start to understand your meaning....<br />is that i did too many bad things in my "past life"...?=_=<br />u asked me to show my filial piety to my parents "when they are around"....does this mean that they will........leave me very soon? i don't want to think about it......<br />but this is unfair, i don't even know who "i" was, what "i" did in my "past life", and the "me" in the past life is not the "me" in the current life where i m living...why should i bear those "relationship debts" incurred by that "me" in the past life......?