Hello:
I think you are making a difficult decision. And I believe you are a good father as well as a good husband. I don't know how old your kids are. Are they mature enough to communicate with you ? Your decision certainly will have long lasting impact on your family. I am not a expert on 8 words. But your wife should be helpful to you. Judging from what you have just described, I will say that marrying with a woman simply for money might not be a wise choice. Every family will have its own crisis, big or small. I believe you will go through it and build a better and cozy home even you are losing current house. After all, a house is not a home until it bring all family members together. I sugeest that you talk to your family first and take their concern into your consideration when making final decison. What you think is good for them is not necessarily good for them. They might not appreciate what you are trying to do for them. A family decison, co-made by all its family members, is critical in planning a family vacation to ensure its success , let alone a dilemma you are facing now.
Good luck to you and your family
Tainan Boy
I think you are making a difficult decision. And I believe you are a good father as well as a good husband. I don't know how old your kids are. Are they mature enough to communicate with you ? Your decision certainly will have long lasting impact on your family. I am not a expert on 8 words. But your wife should be helpful to you. Judging from what you have just described, I will say that marrying with a woman simply for money might not be a wise choice. Every family will have its own crisis, big or small. I believe you will go through it and build a better and cozy home even you are losing current house. After all, a house is not a home until it bring all family members together. I sugeest that you talk to your family first and take their concern into your consideration when making final decison. What you think is good for them is not necessarily good for them. They might not appreciate what you are trying to do for them. A family decison, co-made by all its family members, is critical in planning a family vacation to ensure its success , let alone a dilemma you are facing now.
Good luck to you and your family
Tainan Boy
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夫君子之行﹕靜以修身,儉以養德。非澹泊無以明志,非寧靜無以致遠。夫學須靜也,才須學也。非學無以廣才,非靜無以成學。慆慢則不能研精,險躁則不能理性。 年與時馳,意與日去, 遂成枯落, 多不接世。 悲守窮盧,將復何及﹗-------諸葛亮誡子書
夫君子之行﹕靜以修身,儉以養德。非澹泊無以明志,非寧靜無以致遠。夫學須靜也,才須學也。非學無以廣才,非靜無以成學。慆慢則不能研精,險躁則不能理性。 年與時馳,意與日去, 遂成枯落, 多不接世。 悲守窮盧,將復何及﹗-------諸葛亮誡子書
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