嗯...我也很好奇..

1)"挫折"究竟是一種磨練還是警訊(警告你此路不通)?......
It depends on your personality and the resource on hand.
2)究竟是你下的決定改變了命運 還是命運本來就會讓你做出那樣的決定..?(還是兩者皆有..?)
I don't know. But I am wondering if you know the trend of your destiny, will you just accept it ? In my mind: First level of people will create their destint. Second level of people will manage thier destiny. And third level of people will be controlled by their destiny. Unfortunately, I am still in the third level, ^-^

3)不知道...但對我而言找到好朋友比找到"益友"好多了:) 跟自己個性興趣相似的人在一起 啟發還大一點...(或許那就算益友;)?)

To me, I am still looking for mentors and beneficial friends that can broaden my knowledge base.

嗯...以前國中課本就有一篇文章叫"謝天"..我覺得這樣的態度滿健康的...這樣成功的人不會太過驕縱 失敗的人也不會太埋怨自己..畢竟除了人之外 還有更可敬的力量在......
I remember that arcticle too. It is writen by Chen Tzu-Fun, right ?

I am living in a place where the snow season last almost half an year. I like gardening. I plant flowers and vegetable and thus I totally believe in the power of mother nature.