Hi, Cookie,
Please do understand that I did not imply anything about you current relationship, by not answer your questions dierctly.
The fact is that, I did not have enough time to help you with other questions.
I'll do it some other time, and try to give you some positive suggestions which might let you know yourself better.
Your English is pretty good, by the way.
I prefer to write my articles in English because it takes way too much time to type Chinese characters, and I not so familiar with those astrology terms in Chinese.
Keep well,
Kai