Sorry i dont have a chinese writer at this moment,so i type u english.

I personally think that your fire + soil are too much, so it affects your personality alot...which as a result,you will always think too much abt certain problem and make yourself tired.Your life circle will turns smoother after you enter middle age...and u really have to calm down for a while and make efford with someone who will stay with u for the rest of ur life....

This is a very critical years for you (2004 till 2006)...you will be surrounded by only that problem you consider(like visas,new life,new family)...and u lost a chance to let yourself relax...So you keep goin on think abt the solution...but all i can advice...you have to hold on what u believe then u could catch your luck and have a better future....If not,you were just wasting your time,and it is really worst than doin nothing.

Believe that u will have a good future,and stay calm...you seldom think that others are the one who against you...but on the other hand,refresh your mind and give other chances...dont they also trying hard to create you a new family....

Felt appreciate what u behold now,and stay more patient,then you may discover another thought!Maybe this 3,4 years are hard for you...but u have to consider,a marriage life may last for 40 years or more !!