Sir,
Thank you for your reply. The answer that you are looking for is Karma. [宿緣] The force that is produced by the things you do in your life and that will influence you in the future. I know your English is better than your Chinese. However, if you would like to learn more about Chinese Pseudo-Metaphysics, you need to understand the meaning of Chinese characters and the implied thought of them. Besides, while in Rome, do as the Ramans do. Sometimes We might be able to help other viewers who can only read Chinese characters.
Regards,
shihuk

結緣有結一世善緣 亦有結一世惡緣:

十年修得同船渡 百年修得共枕眠 千年修得夫妻情 萬年修得父母恩

廣結善緣