Because of Destiny ? Fate ?
It is too general. I think it is because of attitude, an attitude of life.
All depending on the attitude, how and what a person wants to be.
What really addicts to his mind and what really encourage him to pursuit what he wants.
When we look at a person's life, how do we determine if he is successful or not ?
The definition of success is too broad and everyone may give a different meaning to it. What does success really mean to the one we observe ? It is probably not the same as what you and I think.
I hate people press their definition of success to my mind. It is nothing to do with victory. It just matters with if we feel we are done with accomplishment and achievement.
I don't like the word "Destiny". It means it is fatal and nothing can be changed.
Isn't everyone living and improving their life everyday ?
We are in a process of evolution ...
There would be worries, terrors, and afraid, but there shouldn't be any fate neither destiny evolved.
你說的所謂attitude在我人生經驗而言, 完全是不重要, 我見過太多太多人, 態度很正確, 很能吃苦, 辛勤工作, 努力向上爬. 到晚年生活連糊口都做不到. 相反一些人, 不務正業, 遊手好閒, 讀書更是白痴一名, 天天跟風炒東炒西的, 連基本分析都不會, 買什麼都不清楚的, 反而天天魚翅撈飯喇. 又有一些人, 天天花天走地, 老婆反而誓死相隨, 有些人專一愛侶, 下場卻是受盡恥辱. 人的意志在宇宙間只屬滄海一栗. 跟本不是重要的一部份.
態度好就會成功, 只是一般入世未深的人的良好願望而已. 中國人的古語一早講明白, 人的生活取決於一命, 二運, 三風水, 四積陰德, 五才是讀書而己. 讀書也算是努力的一種, 不好意思, 只敬陪末座而己.
有空看看呂蒙正的勸世文吧. 我也不喜歡他的命運論. 太過被動太過灰. 但不能不說, 這些都是事實. 人生世間跟本如此運作~
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