Dear alex5710, thank you so much for your kind analysis. I do still miss my ex bf sometimes, but i also like this guy more and mor. May i ask why you said that he is my well-prepared husband? do you mean he is likely to be my Mr. Right? If so, I would like to put more effort between him and me. I will reconsider it after 27 march. afterwards i might be able to make a wise decision.