有1次我在超市購物時,
前面的老太太突然暈倒在地,
我拉住旁邊的朋友想一起扶起她,
朋友就說不用我們扶的,別人會的= =
後來立即有幾個超市服務員來協助她了.
就是厲害的bystander effect,
我把責任"分享"給一起的朋友
朋友把責任推到別人身上.
How to Avoid Being a Victim of the Bystander Effect
Talk to people directly. Make eye contact.
If possible, use people's names; if not, point.
Tell exactly which people to do what.
Do not yell indiscreetly for help but do let people know that it is an emergency situation
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