I am sorry for the confusion. Yes, I am a girl. My Chinese is not very good because I've been in US for 14 years since high school. I can't type Chinese, therefore, I have to write with NJpen and copy and paste Chinese characters I found on web, which took me very long to prepare the message. The stuff I copied and pasted from someone else's message got mixed up and caused the above confusion. I am truly sorry for any inconvenience. This is the first time I get to know 紫微斗數, I am still in progress of learning. The guy I love believes in such thing so I hope I can know more about him from learning this. If I did anything wrong please let me know because I really have no idea. Thank you everyone.