Hi Alex,
I am not playing with "gua", I am really serious about this relationship and all the "gua" that I had asked. I am just very confused. It is not like I didn't do anything. I did something, but whenever I did something, I got rejected by her. You could call me a chicken or no balls, but you can not said that I didn't try. When we broke up, I was the one who beg for her to come back. It is not that I don't want to be with her or support her, it is that, she close her mind on me. She think we have no future, and she think we can not cross over all the problem, but I have faith, and I am welling to work together to fight all those problems. But she doesn't, all she want to do is to close herselve up and hide, and never to face another relationship again. That is the way she been doing it to me. I had asked so many "gua" is not because I am playing, it is because I want to make sure that I am using the correct time to do somthing for her and for our relationship. I am frustrated, confused and unsure, this is why all the questions that I asked are about her. I am sorry that if what I done showed no respect to "gua", but I didn't mean it. Sorry about giving you such problem, and thanks again for the help.