業)力和(願)力,
太(長)了,我使不上力了,
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1. (願)力, >> 業)力, but it usually applys when prople try to benefit other people.
2. In the relationship between couples, (願)力,( Willing power), hopefully not indulgence, can be the root of suffering, especially when the relationship has come to an end.
3. Hopefully, you are not hurt by the second arrow by yourself.
Everyone can be hurt by the first arrow in romance because it is totally out of control. But it is our wisdom tosprevent us from being hurt by second arrow.
4. Life is not just romance. We should not put all of our energy on it.
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夫君子之行﹕靜以修身,儉以養德。非澹泊無以明志,非寧靜無以致遠。夫學須靜也,才須學也。非學無以廣才,非靜無以成學。慆慢則不能研精,險躁則不能理性。
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