Thank you, Mr. DarksuN. These suggestions are very useful.



>>The lady looks like a tom boy to me. Her husband should be

>>quite handsome but a little sissy.

This part is very true. I never wear any skirt or long hair since childhood. Sometime my behaviour is kind of rude. On the other hand, his personality is over gentle even girlish but not his looking. His looking is like a middle age fat man now.



Does this mean we match to each other in personality?

Or does this mean we have big difference and cause divorce after married?



His gentle attitude makes many girls treat him as a good friend. But for sure he is not a gay since he has been lived with me almost every weekend and he doesn't have more than five male good friends. As now, I only see he got 2 male friends who play PC games with him. I prefer he playing games than talking with girls.



For example, the follow was a MSN record from his MSN chatting with a girl.

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agi: out of ideas~~ 說:

in my dream, it was a guy want to save another guy in the boat, yet the boat sunk so quickly into the water... and then i dont' remember what'd happened... i can't recalled it... i was watching wtih my own eyes.. so pretty scary.. and then somehow.. i think next it's my second dream

agi: out of ideas~~ 說:

in my dream.. i saw police was thinking those two murders were linked.. because it was both stabbing case... and the second person was being punched abusively.. (i actually saw that happening in my dream too)

Arron:^^

um........dream with criminal cases...I just wonder if the criminal happen the energy effect ur brain or something else.

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Many girls like to chat with him, not by his looking, he is not handsome. I can send picture to you. Even me, I love to chat with him by ears. He can give me the feeling of comfortable and safe. He is the only one can easy my mad mood and sensitive emotion.



Right now, I don't worry about his affair so far. He is all right to handle those girls by himself as I know him for these 4 years. He only looks them as sisters.



Would he find other girl and dump me in the future?



Your suggestion is so useful. I will follow your suggestion to be nicer to him.

Thank you very much.



Can I have your email then send our picture to you?



Appreciate for your help, really.