求道老師, shinchen520老師,您好,大家好 again:

Suddenly thinking of some information about:

1) My mother(not sure her birth date): during my childhood, my mother said:
a) Her father ran to other country because some "China revolution" was
catching well-educated people. My grandpa was on the list---at that time, he was a teacher in China. So, my grandpa left behind his wife
two daughters (my mother at 6 y.o and her elder sister at 8 y.o) in
China. After my grandpa left, my grandmom got starve and sick, died at my mother's 8 y.o. My grandpa always sent money to them (but get stolen my relatives, not many got to their hands). My grandpa became a high-school principal in that country. My grandpa always wrote letter to my mom,
but they never met again until at my mom's 43 y.o. What a pity life ?
At my mom's early 20, got a chance to H.K., worked and met my father, gave
birth to 4 childen (including me). My father and mother always had fight
during early marriage about money and stuff, we were too poor, 6 people
lived in 120 square feet home. My mother wanted to leave my father but
because of 4 children, she stayed, worked hard and took care 4 of us.
Then, my father got layed off in 1986 in H.K., so he found a job in
China in 1987, one year before I went to U.S.A for study. After few years
of working, he made some money ( but not rich that kind) and had an
"out-of-marriage" affair with a woman in China, gave birth to a
"brother", my mom, my same-blood sister/brothers, I did not know it until
somewhere between "1990 to 1991", Then my mother and father relationship
was getting worser.

b) My father (not sure her birth date himself): My father's mom (herein call grandmom) was a second wife of my father's father ( call grandpa), grandpa and grandmom ages difference should be almost 30 years when they got married in China. So, my grandp died earlier, somewhere between my father's 5 y.o.to 6 y.o.
My grandma took care 4 children (including my father), and I heard that my father have about another 4 different blood brothers/sisters. My father went to
H.K. from China at his early 20', met my mom and gave birth four of us in 8 years.

謝謝
求道老師, shinchen520老師,大家