There are so many stories about the torture of love.

I suggest you to read Emily Dickison's poems. She secretly was in love with one married old guy but kept her love in silence. Until one day...He knew...

Through all her life, she never bothered to be someone's burden even in the name of LOVE. I guess her energy has a wonderful way to go, she writes she meditates--not in a traditional way she loves the world.

Her poems are so beautiful and serene. I know I have a very rare example to talk about this situation. But I want you to share what I think of this kind of love.

They can keep their love in a purest way to celebrate their true love.

Try to love the other people and devote their energy in other interests. Maybe write some love poems, maybe those experiences can enrich their inner peace/strength . Don't let love become an excuse to torture others and each other.

I know I am too idealistic to say those words so I would rather write in English.

Sigh... I hope love never hurts anybody !!!