註冊: 2002-04-03
文章數: 5759
來自: 大馬
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please can you take a look at this chinese horoscope and let me know what is installed for my newly born baby daughter's future life. Thank you all in advance, and look forward to your replies.
戊丙甲甲
子戌戌申
The 4 Pillars
Year Pillar +Wood - +Metal
Month Pillar +Wood - +Earth
Day Pillar +Fire - +Earth
Hour Pillar +Earth - -Water
The Strength of 5 Elements
五行 比重
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木囚 26.3 Wood = 2
火休 19.0 Fire = 1 <== This is the DayMaster, representing the person
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土旺 23.4 Earth = 3
金相 15.1 Metal = 1
水死 16.1 Water = 1
日干旺度: 4.48 < 日干標準: 5.30 3 vs. 5 ==> DayMaster is a bit weak
陰陽氣含: +21.8 The chart is warm, may need water to moisturise it
She is a Bing (Yang) Fire person.
She is born in late Autumn, and border to Winter, and Earth is in charge
The problem of this chart is that: there is too much Earth, and making the chart slightly unbalance
There are 2 camps here:
Camp 1 : Wood and Fire
Camp 2: Earth, Metal
Earth drains out Fire
Useful element is Wood, as Wood can (i) feeds fire; and (ii) control Earth
Since this chart is on the warm side, so a bit of water helps. Water can also generate Wood (the useful element)
She like fire as well.
She dislikes Earth and Metal.
She will get a lot of help from her mother and also guidance from her senior.
She will perform well in her study.
Marrying late will help her to find a more secure marriage.
Character-wise, she may like to argue a lot (showing her intelligent), but in fact she is weak in decision making in major event.
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若所寫的(有關解惑)對你有所提點或幫助,請務必隨緣捐獻或行一善事。
性格控制命運,
命運決定人生;
您的過去建構您的現在,
您的現在導向您的未來。
註冊: 2002-04-03
文章數: 5759
來自: 大馬
回應:
Apologies for the many questions, it is because she's our first child, and like any parent, we would like to know that our daughter will be safe, healthy and successful.
I can only address on her health at this moment and may come back when I have more free time.
She lacks -wood and have too much earth in her chart, the indications are:
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◎ 健 康 ◎
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1. No Yin Wood = need to take care of liver 須注意肝臟方面的疾病。
2. Too many Yang Earth, need to take care of stomach problem 須注意胃方面的疾病。
3. No Yin Earth, related to spleen 須注意脾臟方面的疾病。
以上健康情形,必須再看大運流年論斷。
There is no clashes in the original chart, so except that she may have stomach problem, her overall health is good.
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若所寫的(有關解惑)對你有所提點或幫助,請務必隨緣捐獻或行一善事。
性格控制命運,
命運決定人生;
您的過去建構您的現在,
您的現在導向您的未來。
註冊: 2002-04-03
文章數: 5759
來自: 大馬
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I don't know what to say to express my appreciation. Thank you so much and may happiness be with you.
Steven
Dear Steven
I am also a father to a daughter, which is why I understand the concern.
Please give a donation to a charity of your choice for this audit.
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若所寫的(有關解惑)對你有所提點或幫助,請務必隨緣捐獻或行一善事。
性格控制命運,
命運決定人生;
您的過去建構您的現在,
您的現在導向您的未來。
註冊: 2002-04-03
文章數: 5759
來自: 大馬
回應:
From your readings, is it bad for her to stay in the UK because she dislikes Earth and Metal? Where would be a good place for her to grow up and become successful?
I did mention that the chart is warm (+21.8), and that she required water to moisturize/ cool down the warmness. The indication is that she prefers to stay in somewhere not too hot, like the places near the Equator.
Traditionally, the Chinese believes that the 5 elements also represent direction:
1. Metal = West
2. Water = North
3. Wood = East
4. Fire = South
5. Earth = Center
Her chart suggests that she prefer Northern, Eastern and Southern part from her place of birth.
She has a 驛馬 (Courier Horse) in her chart, which means that she will be travelling a lot and I won’t be surprise if she is not growing up in her place of birth.
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若所寫的(有關解惑)對你有所提點或幫助,請務必隨緣捐獻或行一善事。
性格控制命運,
命運決定人生;
您的過去建構您的現在,
您的現在導向您的未來。
註冊: 2002-04-03
文章數: 5759
來自: 大馬
回應:
Also, is it too early to find out whether my baby daughter will have a comfortable future financially and emotionally? Also, is there any periods of time in her life which will be "low" for her and that we have to look out for?
The Chinese has sayings 兒孫自有兒孫福 and 船到橋頭自然直 (well, I will let your wife explains these Chinese concepts to you), so as long as we educate our children properly, they should know how to fish for themselves and not worrying how long could we provide them with fish.
Her best time shall be around 20-29, and she should do well in her study, but as I have said before, she needs to learn how to make the right decision, this can be so because she is so bright and intelligence in her study that she is too proud to admit that she lacks experience in making some important decision.
If she is taught well during that 20-29, then she would be well-prepared for the next 10 years and also years to come.
The next 10 years pillar 30-39 won't be that easy for her, but if she has been taught well, I am sure she will get thru all the ups and downs, and if she can live up to 70s (sorry, I do not read when would a person pass away), she will have great retirement age from 70-89.
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若所寫的(有關解惑)對你有所提點或幫助,請務必隨緣捐獻或行一善事。
性格控制命運,
命運決定人生;
您的過去建構您的現在,
您的現在導向您的未來。
註冊: 2002-04-03
文章數: 5759
來自: 大馬
回應:
whether my baby daughter will have a comfortable future emotionally
The chart suggests that she might face problem in boy and girl relationship, it is suggested that we as parents should set a good example of a loving couple and also let her experience the love of a family to enable her to have a healthy concept in terms of B&G relationship.
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若所寫的(有關解惑)對你有所提點或幫助,請務必隨緣捐獻或行一善事。
性格控制命運,
命運決定人生;
您的過去建構您的現在,
您的現在導向您的未來。
註冊: 2002-04-03
文章數: 5759
來自: 大馬
回應:
whether my baby daughter will have a comfortable future financially
To westerners, it may be a joke if we tell them that ancient Chinese astrology does not read much of a woman’s wealth, because a woman’s wealth (in ancient time) depends on her husband.
The chart suggests that she has a good career path, if she ventures into the right training and career, then there is no need to worry her financial situation, and having saving habit and be 節省.
The career related to the favourable elements are as follow:
Wood <-- this is the 1st choice
※與木材或植物有關、或屬於生長性有關的行業。
木 文具、圖書、紙張、服飾、紡織、 園藝、造景。木製品、傢俱、木器、裝潢、園藝、工藝、盆栽、茶葉、教育界、教師、文學、文藝、紙業、文具書店、出版社、文化事業、秘書、公教人員、服飾、纖維、農業蔬果、檳榔、素食品、宗教品、政治界、軍警、藥物界等。
Fire
※與能源、熱能、動力、光源、人身裝飾性質之行業。
火 塑膠、橡膠、眼鏡、玻璃、光學、 化工、石油、電鍍、化妝品、 美髮、酒、餐飲、醫。光學、燈飾、照相、眼鏡、半導體、電線電纜、電器維修、石油業、酒類、加工、製造、工廠、食品、自助餐、印刷、手工藝、理髮、美容、化粧品、服飾、百貨等。
Water
※與水質、液體、流動性、變化性、往來性有關之行業。
水 水電、運輸、貿易、旅遊、保險、 娛樂、休閒、演藝、模特兒、 咖啡泡沫紅茶店。大眾傳播、記者、演藝事業、唱片業、交通運輸、導遊業、遊覽公司、旅行社、旅社、冷凍業、漁業、海產、冷飲、市場、流動攤販、玩具、貿易、經銷商、運動家、滅火器具、清潔、醫師、護士、美容、水利界、業務。
The tendency also shown that she prefers career related to:
宜專業性的工作,如行政,管理人員等。
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若所寫的(有關解惑)對你有所提點或幫助,請務必隨緣捐獻或行一善事。
性格控制命運,
命運決定人生;
您的過去建構您的現在,
您的現在導向您的未來。
註冊: 2002-04-03
文章數: 5759
來自: 大馬
Perhap I should also point out that:
Except Yin Water, all the other 7 elements in the chart are Yang
The 4 Pillars
Year Pillar +Wood - +Metal
Month Pillar +Wood - +Earth
Day Pillar +Fire - +Earth
Hour Pillar +Earth - -Water
We called it 純陽, this actually coincides with the 命宮 Life Palace of Zi Wei Dou Shu 紫微斗數, where 武曲 is found.
武曲 - 性情至剛至毅,性情剛強,處事果決。
Her character will be unyielding, that is why even from youth, a softer approach is required to soften her down.
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若所寫的(有關解惑)對你有所提點或幫助,請務必隨緣捐獻或行一善事。
性格控制命運,
命運決定人生;
您的過去建構您的現在,
您的現在導向您的未來。
註冊: 2002-04-03
文章數: 5759
來自: 大馬
回應:
Thank you master Wilson. Best regards,
Steven
I read that in Zi Wei Dou Shu forum, similar advices were given, in particular that:
將來不要用硬銷來對她
and your wife's reply:
至於我們也會小心寶寶的教育, 希望寶寶以後做人處世的態度能謙虛, 不會持才而驕
is what exactly I am trying to advice.
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若所寫的(有關解惑)對你有所提點或幫助,請務必隨緣捐獻或行一善事。
性格控制命運,
命運決定人生;
您的過去建構您的現在,
您的現在導向您的未來。
註冊: 2002-04-03
文章數: 5759
來自: 大馬
【八字小兒關煞】 回應:
1. Do not go in the church.
和尚關:勿入齌壇、休入喪孝家、勿入僧寺廟見和尚,如不注意者,災疾難免一生怕犯麻衣煞,須多注意為吉,隨母入廟行香多驚。須避之,保平安。
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5. Do not bring her to pass tomb/burial place.
閻王關:俗忌做佛事功果勿看。在未上運時,所有陰宮廟、不利近前。尤其是城隍宮、俗忌做佛事功果,切不可接近可保平安。
百日關:生下百日內,不可去外婆家,以色災刑。生日起對百日之日勿出門,忌遠行恐驚風。避之可保平安。
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2. Do not bring her to see who is butchering pigs, cows, chicken
雞飛關:怕看殺生,防雞飛過頭雞啄等驚風,防之為要,以免不吉。
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4. Do not bring her to attend the party of mid-July(中元) in Taiwan/China.
取命關:須防高空險處,勿看凶亡人,新建廟宮,建蘸,中元普渡,中元壇內皆不可接近,可保平安。
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3. Do not let her climb to the high place. She will drop/fall down from the high position. Just put eyes on her.
雷公關:在響雷時,勿近水井邊,或鐵器邊,防高空跌倒,小孩喜歡爬高,爬高終失危險,勿抱高空或高處弄跳等,保平安。
急腳關:勿行遠方,勿看上樑、修造、動土、保平安。
白虎關:一生多血光之災,須防失跌,高空險處小心,尤其女命,生產時要特別小心,以免母子喪亡。出麻疹小心。現有預防針種,多注意可保平安。
Just for reference only. Don't take it too literally
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若所寫的(有關解惑)對你有所提點或幫助,請務必隨緣捐獻或行一善事。
性格控制命運,
命運決定人生;
您的過去建構您的現在,
您的現在導向您的未來。