Hi各位高人,

I want to know my marriage/love life and work. Will I move to another city next year? Will my relationship with my boyfriend last? Do I have 剋夫命 as well?

I have read this forum for a long time but this is the first time I am posting. (I can read both Chinese and English)

Thank you

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請提供男友之出生年次及生肖(例1971,豬)

Don't be surprise... He is "Horse" 1979.

Are you living in Vancouver, Canada. YVR, the code of vancouver international airport.

Bingo! You are right.

^_^

I met several colleagues from Vancouver and I have been there for one week in the early April this year. Voncouver, What a nice city to live in !! Good living environment, cheap chinese food, picturesque parks. I am really envious of you. The only drawbacks: not very easy to find a job and high tax rate. ^-^ Is this the reason why you want to relocate to other city ? Seattle might be a viable option for you.

To answer your questions, let me try to perform theorectical guess.

Personality analysis:

1.Warm: just like the autumn sun that will encourage people to go outdoors
2.Persistent: once set up the goal, will do your best to achieve it.
3.Good interpersonal and communication skills
4.Creative but might not be obedient


Family background analysis:
1.brought up from a wealthy family
2.good interation with your father


Marriage:
Since you do have "PenTsai" in the year location, you should feel less worrisome about the fact that 'ChenKwan, appearing at day location , and Sonkwan, appearing at day location, coexist at your 8 words. Respect your boy friend and don't try every time to persuade him into accepting your opinion or ideas, you will feel much easier to manage your marriage.


Work:
Are you working in businees environment?
It seems something major will happen or has alreay occured in the second half of this year.

With my limited ability in 8 words, the above mentioned is what I can guess at this moment.

Good luck

Tainan Boy

I don't really want to relocate. Vancouver is such a good place to be in. I am not sure if I will relocate because my boyfriend may want to move back to Asia next year. He is not sure at the moment.

I really want to know more about my marraige. I didn't have a happy marriage. I seperated with my husband early this year (looking into a divorce next year). And now have a boy friend. I am uncertain about myself being able to have a good "family" of my own after my first failure.

> Family background analysis:
>1.brought up from a wealthy family
>2.good interation with your father

I was in a ok family. Not need to worry about housing and schooling but not wealthy. I seldom talk to my father but he is smiling most of the time. (except when $ is concern and hasn't been a problem since I moved out. I give him a bit of extra money to spend every month.)

Thank you
YVR

Hi:

I suggest that you post more of your personal experience and facts regarding to your marriage. Then, people will be much easier to give their advice from different perspectives, not just from destiny point of view.

In your case, Water is strong, Earth is strong, and Fire is not weak. When they fight with each other, who will compromise ?

However, how to make best use of the "chia" wood that hide in the" hi" water in your 8 words and Yi wood in your current fourtune periord will be most critical to you.

In your case, wood means "in" that stands for absorbing new knowledge and religion. So, you may try to look into these areas to see if they are helpful to you.

In fact, I seldom belive in the concept of hurting wife or hurting husband. If it do exist, there is no use of believing in the principle of cause and effect. But I do believe that people may not always find their best match at their first love or first marriage. As you may know, 50 % of Americans, according to my observation and talking to my American friends,are having thier second marriage. Will they think themselves hurting wife or hurting husband? I think the answer is probably not. So, just don 't be so discouraged by your first marriage.

Nowadays, I know it won't be easy to be a working woman. In most cases, they need to play the roles as a house keeper, bread earner, and sometimes primary child care provider. It just looks like the candles that are burning from two ends. The more education the woman receive, the more likely she can not accept her loading once his significant other is not considerate. Therefore, if man can not adjust their traditional concept as a house chief, the conflicts will
become inevitable. Is this the root casue of so many unhappy marriage ?


I need to go to work now. Write to you later.

Tainan Boy

Thank you.

I will try to find a Chinese input method and put in more information in Chinese.

YVR

我的男友生于陽歷1979年1月.屬馬.

謝謝

各位高人,

讓我用中文重貼問題.

小妹和前夫在今年頭分開,明年將辦離婚.

現在有一屬馬的男朋友(1979年).

希望知道我還有結婚的可能? 請問我和他之間的緣分可長久? 他將于明年畢業,之後他可會遷移呢? 我應不應跟隨他遷回亞洲?

又如何看我的八字呢? (五行,屬性...等等)

我在工作,身處溫哥華.

謝謝各位
初學者-兒

(I posted the above word by word using a english-chinese translator. Please excuse if there is any 言詞表達不周.)