Deal all:
I would like to initiate the following discussion. Please respond if you feel interested. Let me learn from your opinion, Thanks in advance.

1. What will you do when you are facing career crisis or family crisis ? What is your problem solving process ?

2. Do you think your personality plays a vital role in determining your destiny ? Also, do you agree that your ability to learn from mistake is important to take you to another stage ?

3. Somebody may think that mentors and good (beneficial) friends are critical to walk you through difficult time. Do you think it is easy to find out your mentors and beneficial friends? If you are lucky enough to have them, what is the way you make good interaction between you and them ?

4. When facing failure, do you think it is not responisble of you to attribute all the unlucky things to your birth time or the house you are living or working ?

嗯...我也很好奇..

1)"挫折"究竟是一種磨練還是警訊(警告你此路不通)?......

2)究竟是你下的決定改變了命運 還是命運本來就會讓你做出那樣的決定..?(還是兩者皆有..?)

3)不知道...但對我而言找到好朋友比找到"益友"好多了:) 跟自己個性興趣相似的人在一起 啟發還大一點...(或許那就算益友;)?)

嗯...以前國中課本就有一篇文章叫"謝天"..我覺得這樣的態度滿健康的...這樣成功的人不會太過驕縱 失敗的人也不會太埋怨自己..畢竟除了人之外 還有更可敬的力量在......

1. In my opinion, I'll choose family first. Nobody can share your happiness when you get achievement in your career someday, it's no use for me.

2. Sure. That's why something happening, somebody can overcome and even develop another solution, but somebody just gives up and is dispressed. Further, people are always in learning from childhood, e.g. learning how to "walk". We fall down, and rise up.

3. Not so easy. We may meet many people everyday, but it's rare to have the same "chemistry" impacted. Make yourself to your friends.

4. Of course not. I don't believe people are cursed. You can find many examples. President A-ban maybe a good idea.

嗯...我也很好奇..

1)"挫折"究竟是一種磨練還是警訊(警告你此路不通)?......
It depends on your personality and the resource on hand.
2)究竟是你下的決定改變了命運 還是命運本來就會讓你做出那樣的決定..?(還是兩者皆有..?)
I don't know. But I am wondering if you know the trend of your destiny, will you just accept it ? In my mind: First level of people will create their destint. Second level of people will manage thier destiny. And third level of people will be controlled by their destiny. Unfortunately, I am still in the third level, ^-^

3)不知道...但對我而言找到好朋友比找到"益友"好多了:) 跟自己個性興趣相似的人在一起 啟發還大一點...(或許那就算益友;)?)

To me, I am still looking for mentors and beneficial friends that can broaden my knowledge base.

嗯...以前國中課本就有一篇文章叫"謝天"..我覺得這樣的態度滿健康的...這樣成功的人不會太過驕縱 失敗的人也不會太埋怨自己..畢竟除了人之外 還有更可敬的力量在......
I remember that arcticle too. It is writen by Chen Tzu-Fun, right ?

I am living in a place where the snow season last almost half an year. I like gardening. I plant flowers and vegetable and thus I totally believe in the power of mother nature.

1. In my opinion, I'll choose family first. Nobody can share your happiness when you get achievement in your career someday, it's no use for me.
>>> After experiencing some incredible events such as 911, People all over the world, I believce, are changing their attitude and rethinking the balance between work and family.

2. Sure. That's why something happening, somebody can overcome and even develop another solution, but somebody just gives up and is dispressed. Further, people are always in learning from childhood, e.g. learning how to "walk". We fall down, and rise up.

>>>Are you a risk taker ?


3. Not so easy. We may meet many people everyday, but it's rare to have the same "chemistry" impacted. Make yourself to your friends.

>>>When two atoms will try to link together, both of them need to release some energy before they can do so. The same principle can apply to the relationship between couples, friends, parents and their kids.

The point is: what type of atom do we belong to ? Are we inert or active atoms ?

4. Of course not. I don't believe people are cursed. You can find many examples. President A-ban maybe a good idea.

>>>> Are you interesting in knowing how people will manage their destiny after knowing their trend of destiny ? And Are you interesting in knowing the way experts plan their transition from bad time to good time or good time to bad time ? If we are lucky, we may draw some more expert comments on this question.

>>> After experiencing some incredible events such as 911, People all over the world, I believce, are changing their attitude and rethinking the balance between work and family.

I also got lots from these incredible events. That is, I am willing to try to place myself peaceful and give my wish to my ex although I am still in tangles.

>>>Are you a risk taker ?

No, I'm that kind of person who is pursuing calm and stable.

>>>When two atoms will try to link together, both of them need to release some energy before they can do so. The same principle can apply to the relationship between couples, friends, parents and their kids.

The point is: what type of atom do we belong to ? Are we inert or active atoms ?

I do agree your opinion. I always believe peoples who have the same principles will impact beautiful bright.

What type of atom do we belong to? Inert or active? When you meet people at the first sight and are attracted , you may know what you belong to. If you're attracted to the vivacious people, you might be inert. It's the same reason of 陰陽相吸.

>>>> Are you interesting in knowing how people will manage their destiny after knowing their trend of destiny ? And Are you interesting in knowing the way experts plan their transition from bad time to good time or good time to bad time ? If we are lucky, we may draw some more expert comments on this question.

Kind of interesting in that. That's why I'm hanging here. Ha!
By the way, I read your article and know you're in snowy place. Is it beautiful? I guess you're in the east of US. Am I right?