#337412 - 2004-03-06 11:06:42
Question regarding relationship
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註冊: 2004-03-06
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Hi everyone,
I'm sorry but I'm not able to type in Chinese. I really need help analyzing my birth chart. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and there is a problem with the relationship at this moment. He said that he needs to find out whether he wants to continue with the relationship or to find someone else because his parents are forcing him to get married to someone else. I would like to find out if there is a chance that we will get back together. We get along very well and we like to be with eachother. However, he is not Chinese and thus he is not sure if things will work out. I really would like to make this relationship work but I would never force him to do things he doesn't want to do. I just wish that we will be together. Please help! Thank you all so much in advance.
One thing I would like to add is that I have been told since youth that my relationship will not be good so I did not have any boyfriend until I met this person. I have also been very cautious in my actions to make sure that I don't do things without reason. I think that it's important to maintain good relationship with everyone and I rarely get into arguments with my boyfriend or any of my friends. Thanks for your patience!
Here is my chart and I am also attaching his chart (I'm not sure about his birth time).
國曆： 64 年 11 月 19 日 戌 時生 性別： 女 性
農曆： 64 年 10 月 17 日 戌 時生 虛歲： 30 歲
八字： 時 日 月 年 大運： 7 ~ 16 戊子
柱 柱 柱 柱 17 ~ 26 己丑
： ： ： ： 27 ~ 36 庚寅
正 偏 七 37 ~ 46 辛卯
官 印 殺 47 ~ 56 壬辰
甲 己 丁 乙 57 ~ 66 癸巳
戌 巳 亥 卯 67 ~ 76 甲午
丁辛戊 庚戊丙 甲壬 乙 77 ~ 86 乙未
偏食劫 傷劫正 正正 七 87 ~ 96 丙申
印神財 官財印 官財 殺
大運： 87 77 67 57 47 37 27 17 7
正 七 正 偏 正 食 傷 比 劫
印 殺 官 財 財 神 官 肩 財
丙 乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊
申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子
戊壬庚 乙丁己 己丁 庚戊丙 癸乙戊 乙 戊丙甲 辛癸己 癸
劫正傷 七偏比 比偏 傷劫正 偏七劫 七 劫正正 食偏比 偏
財財官 殺印肩 肩印 官財印 財殺財 殺 財印官 神財肩 財
立冬： 64 年 10 月 6 日 9 時 3 分整 紫微斗數命盤製作程式四柱八字資訊
大雪： 64 年 11 月 6 日 1 時 46 分整
命理網專用版 Version 1.6.i
起運： 於出生 6 年 0 個月又 28 天
交運： 逢虛 7 歲的 11 月 15 日 (c) Copyright 1993,2000 All Rights Reserved
距離立冬 26266 分鐘折合 6 年 0 個月 28 天換運 [每逢辛或丙年 11 月 15 日交大運]
[流年] [小運]
84 83 82 81 80 79 78 77 76 75 84 83 82 81 80 79 78 77 76 75
甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚
子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午
10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
94 93 92 91 90 89 88 87 86 85 94 93 92 91 90 89 88 87 86 85
甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚
戌 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰
20 19 18 17 16 15 14 13 12 11 20 19 18 17 16 15 14 13 12 11
04 03 02 01 00 99 98 97 96 95 04 03 02 01 00 99 98 97 96 95
甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚
申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅
30 29 28 27 26 25 24 23 22 21 30 29 28 27 26 25 24 23 22 21
14 13 12 11 10 09 08 07 06 05 14 13 12 11 10 09 08 07 06 05
甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚
午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子
40 39 38 37 36 35 34 33 32 31 40 39 38 37 36 35 34 33 32 31
24 23 22 21 20 19 18 17 16 15 24 23 22 21 20 19 18 17 16 15
甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚
辰 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌
50 49 48 47 46 45 44 43 42 41 50 49 48 47 46 45 44 43 42 41
34 33 32 31 30 29 28 27 26 25 34 33 32 31 30 29 28 27 26 25
甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚
寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午 巳 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申
60 59 58 57 56 55 54 53 52 51 60 59 58 57 56 55 54 53 52 51
This is his chart:
國曆： 65 年 5 月 31 日 子 時生 性別： 男 性
農曆： 65 年 5 月 3 日 子 時生 虛歲： 29 歲
八字： 時 日 月 年 大運： 3 ~ 12 甲午
柱 柱 柱 柱 13 ~ 22 乙未
： ： ： ： 23 ~ 32 丙申
劫 比 正 33 ~ 42 丁酉
財 肩 財 43 ~ 52 戊戌
壬 癸 癸 丙 53 ~ 62 己亥
子 未 巳 辰 63 ~ 72 庚子
癸 乙丁己 庚戊丙 癸乙戊 73 ~ 82 辛丑
比 食偏七 正正正 比食正 83 ~ 92 壬寅
肩 神財殺 印官財 肩神官
大運： 83 73 63 53 43 33 23 13 3
劫 偏 正 七 正 偏 正 食 傷
財 印 印 殺 官 財 財 神 官
壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲
寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午
戊丙甲 辛癸己 癸 甲壬 丁辛戊 辛 戊壬庚 乙丁己 己丁
正正傷 偏比七 比 傷劫 偏偏正 偏 正劫正 食偏七 七偏
官財官 印肩殺 肩 官財 財印官 印 官財印 神財殺 殺財
立夏： 65 年 4 月 7 日 17 時 15 分整 紫微斗數命盤製作程式四柱八字資訊
芒種： 65 年 5 月 8 日 21 時 31 分整
命理網專用版 Version 1.6.i
起運： 於出生 1 年 11 個月又 17 天
交運： 逢虛 3 歲的 4 月 20 日 (c) Copyright 1993,2000 All Rights Reserved
距離立夏 8491 分鐘折合 1 年 11 個月 17 天換運 [每逢戊或癸年 4 月 20 日交大運]
[流年] [小運]
85 84 83 82 81 80 79 78 77 76 85 84 83 82 81 80 79 78 77 76
乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲
丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申
10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
95 94 93 92 91 90 89 88 87 86 95 94 93 92 91 90 89 88 87 86
乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲
亥 戌 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午
20 19 18 17 16 15 14 13 12 11 20 19 18 17 16 15 14 13 12 11
05 04 03 02 01 00 99 98 97 96 05 04 03 02 01 00 99 98 97 96
乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲
酉 申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰
30 29 28 27 26 25 24 23 22 21 30 29 28 27 26 25 24 23 22 21
15 14 13 12 11 10 09 08 07 06 15 14 13 12 11 10 09 08 07 06
乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲
未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅
40 39 38 37 36 35 34 33 32 31 40 39 38 37 36 35 34 33 32 31
25 24 23 22 21 20 19 18 17 16 25 24 23 22 21 20 19 18 17 16
乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲
巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 酉 申 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子
50 49 48 47 46 45 44 43 42 41 50 49 48 47 46 45 44 43 42 41
35 34 33 32 31 30 29 28 27 26 35 34 33 32 31 30 29 28 27 26
乙 甲 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 癸 壬 辛 庚 己 戊 丁 丙 乙 甲
卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉 申 未 午 未 午 巳 辰 卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌
60 59 58 57 56 55 54 53 52 51 60 59 58 57 56 55 54 53 52 51
編輯者： puzzle (2004-03-06 11:17:04)
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#337414 - 2004-03-06 11:49:20
Re: Question regarding relationship
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註冊: 2004-03-06
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I'm very grateful for the translation, Wilson. Thank you!
I would really appreciate anyone's comment. Warm regards.
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#337418 - 2004-03-06 21:18:13
Re: Question regarding relationship
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註冊: 2004-03-06
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Hi CCL, thanks for your response again.
I have done all of my convincing. He actually wants the time apart to see if he truly loves me enough to be with me forever. You are correct, he is of Indian origin but he's from Pakistan instead. He grew up in Pakistan up until he's 19 years old so he's very torn with what he really wants.
Thank you for your kind words. Yes, I know that the world is just an illusion and impermanence. I try to let things go and adjust my feeling accordingly. However, it is very hard for me to believe that something that is so good cannot come to fruition. Please go to sleep and have a great day tomorrow. Warm regards.
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#337420 - 2004-03-07 08:54:50
Re: Question regarding relationship
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Thanks again for your encouraging words, Choon. It's very nice to know that there are caring people out there.  Thanks and have a great day!
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#337422 - 2004-03-08 21:31:31
Re: Question regarding relationship
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註冊: 2004-03-06
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Thanks for reading my chart, 2xjilidl. I really appreciate it! As for your comment, "應是有男人緣的女人", I don't have many guys after me, but I have a lot of good guy friends. As I mentioned above, I never wanted a boyfriend until I met my current boyfriend. Since my 大運走劫比傷食, will my relationship work out? I think if there are a lot of 考驗 for our 感情, then I'm willing to be tested. So you do think that we will survive the 考驗 this year right? Also, since my 流年 next year is 酉, it's also my 傷官. Does that mean my 正官 will be 剋 again? Would you please also take a look at my boyfriend's chart and let me know if he and I can survive the test together and maybe we can get married in 2006. When my 流年 is 丙戌? Thank you so much for your help! Gratefully and with warm regard.
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#337423 - 2004-03-09 01:51:56
Re: Question regarding relationship
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Mr. 2xjilidl, would you also mind telling me if my 運 will be for career? Do I have a good 八字? I currently work in a software company but I am seriously thinking about starting my own business. First, I don't know what I really want to do yet. Second, I currently don't have enough capital to start a business. What industry should I focus on and when is a good time to do it. I don't want a lot of money but I also want to have enough so I don't have to worry about where my next meal is going to come from. Also, if you would look at my boyfriend's then that would be great as well. Please do not feel obligated to do this only if you have some free time. I am already sincerely grateful for Choon and your replies! I also welcome any other master's comments!
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#337424 - 2004-03-09 01:52:51
Re: Question regarding relationship
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註冊: 2002-06-25
文章數: 1747
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您的最大考驗是明年，乙庚化食，已酉半會傷，干支都是食傷，非常的強旺。
且食必剋殺，您要有一些心裡準備才行。
明年的充衝之後，後年2005，印剋傷，您會很意志消沈，非常的嚴重，尤其下半年。
這一年要積極一些，想一些好的事情，並且身體會出一些小狀況。
以上這些，都是要您防患的，但不一定發生。
這個情況會到2007年上半年，下半年之後，您會突然想通了，然後又是非常美好日子來臨，身體狀況又好起來，覺得世界真的很美，之前怎麼那樣的呆，
這下半年非常有可能結婚。
至於您的男友，由於時辰不明，在下無法看的。
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書房派(2001/6)→推旺弱(2022/1)→演流月(2024/11)
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#337425 - 2004-03-09 02:21:03
Re: Question regarding relationship
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Hi Mr. 2xjilidl, thank you once again for spending your time to explain to me. My biggest worry is that I was told that if I get married before 丙戌年, then there is a possibility that my husband will die. Do you think that will happen? Thank you for the cautionary words and I will heed your advice and make sure I do not let my emotions affect me. Actually, year 2001 was a very bad year for me. Can you verify that and let me know if I will have to go through with similar experience in the next 2 years?  As for my boyfriend's birthtime. His mother told him that he was born after midnight on 31st. So it should be 子時. I can tell you a bit about him if you need the information. Do you mind if I email it to you? Please advise. Thanks!
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#337426 - 2004-03-10 00:55:06
Re: Question regarding relationship
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註冊: 2002-06-25
文章數: 1747
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2001年辛巳，食透干，被丁偏印剋，重剋，由六親或長輩所起。
2002年壬午，財剋偏印，化官，一切問題都沒有，非常順心的一年，官星入命，認識目前男友。
2006年丙戌，印剋傷，亦重剋，由外人所引起的，因此與2001年性質不大一樣，
您2001年可以，2006年更是可以。
您命中無傷食，比較會想不開，這一點要時時提醒自己就可以了。
您日主合官，會很關心男友或先生的一切事情，男女之間的距離無論如何的親，都要掌握得很好，尤其是不同文化背景的人，這些又都是文化的一部份，不同文化有不同的認知和感覺，人都不會講出來的，也無從講起。
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書房派(2001/6)→推旺弱(2022/1)→演流月(2024/11)
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#337427 - 2004-03-10 01:04:53
Re: Question regarding relationship
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註冊: 2002-06-25
文章數: 1747
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您男友先核對一下以前的事。
男友發錢如流水，很會賺錢，更會發錢。
2002年和2003年，大破財。目前無任何儲款可言。
2004年開始轉好。
請證實一下如何。
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#337428 - 2004-03-10 20:09:43
Re: Question regarding relationship
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Hi Mr. 2xjilidl, thank you once again for your detailed response. Here is a response to your reading: 2001年辛巳，食透干，被丁偏印剋，重剋，由六親或長輩所起。- Yes, I had some issues with my sister and parents so it was a very painful year for me. 2002年壬午，財剋偏印，化官，一切問題都沒有，非常順心的一年，官星入命，認識目前男友。 - The year went by okay except my career wasn't very good. Overall, it was a smooth year. I met my boyfriend in year 2000 and started going out in May of 2001. 2006年丙戌，印剋傷，亦重剋，由外人所引起的，因此與2001年性質不大一樣 - Thank you for your warning, I will be careful. 您命中無傷食，比較會想不開，這一點要時時提醒自己就可以了。- Yes, you are correct. I turn to religion or Buddhism books when I feel depressed. 您日主合官，會很關心男友或先生的一切事情，男女之間的距離無論如何的親，都要掌握得很好 - Yes, this is true as well. I will be careful as well. Here's a response to my boyfriend's reading: 男友發錢如流水，很會賺錢，更會發錢。- He makes a very good living. He used to spend some money (not that much), but since 2001 he has been very good at saving money. He doesn't buy anything unless he absolutely needs it. He's very conservative with money, he doesn't gamble or get involved in the high risk investments. 2002年和2003年，大破財。目前無任何儲款可言。- He changed a new job in May, 2001, and he got salary increase both in 2002 and 2003. He didn't lose a lot of money except to go on vacation and spend some money on me. Ever since 2001, he has a lot of money saved up. Year 2003 was not a very good year for him. Things are smooth but he has some family issues that he was worried about. Oh, and he had a nose surgery (not a big one) in Feburary or March of 2003. But overall, his life is very smooth so far. His family is well off and they used to have servants in his country. Both parents are well educated. He has 2 older sisters and he's the youngest boy. 2004年開始轉好。- Yes this is true. This year has been a much better year for him than last few. He recently transferred to a new team in his company and he is going on a vacation in 2 weeks. Everything seems to be going very well so far. I hope this helps. Please let me know if you need more information. And once again, thank you very much for doing the reading for me!
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#337429 - 2004-03-11 03:15:13
Re: Question regarding relationship
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一元復始
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註冊: 2002-06-25
文章數: 1747
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您男友的情況，在下少考慮原局地支，有一些誤差，
您男友的八字正確的可能性很大，
目前就以這個八字來論好了，如果有嚴重誤差再來修正好了。
身旺，妻宮座殺，妻子會很會管他，亦會怕妻子，有個好妻子，感情不錯。
今年會不錯，明年會更好，賺更多。
2006年有可能結婚。
劫比旺，會管妻子的人。
命中沒有印，母沒有影響力。
但父親最非常有影響力，
依本八字而言，您們之間問題，並不在父母，而在男主角本身
男友劫比透，表面上情格是太鋼性的人，又有些不太穩定。
但內心還不錯，劫比在干，官殺在支，制之不及，
會常有太過監持自己，但事後又馬上後悔的事，都是制之不及結果。
跟他想處絕對不能表面馬上硬著來，稍為給他一點時間，去思考後，就會有好結果，
基本上表面和內心差異非常的大，一定要給對方思考時間後，才會將好的結果出現。
目前這是走非常好的流年，男友沒有任何問題。
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書房派(2001/6)→推旺弱(2022/1)→演流月(2024/11)
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#337430 - 2004-03-11 21:44:36
Re: Question regarding relationship
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註冊: 2004-03-06
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Hi Mr. 2xjilidl, Thank you!! You are so accurate! I think my 男友的八字 is correct. Everything you said is very accurate. 身旺，妻宮座殺，妻子會很會管他，亦會怕妻子，有個好妻子，感情不錯。劫比旺，會管妻子的人。 - I think ths is true. I think he will be a good husband. He does want to know what I'm doing. The situation is such that we don't really like people telling us what to do, but we will make recommendations to eachother on what we think and then we will make the judgment ourselves. Assuming that I will be his wife. 命中沒有印，母沒有影響力。 但父親最非常有影響力， - These two statements are very accurate! His father plays a big role in his life. He respects his father a lot and has a very good relationship with him. As for his mother, she is a very demanding person. She basically tells him what to do and demands that he follows her command. However, my boyfriend does not like people telling him what to do all the time so he gets upset and feels stressed out with his mother. 依本八字而言，您們之間問題，並不在父母，而在男主角本身 - This is true as well. He has been thinking whether being married to me is good or not. And his parents are also forcing him to marry in the next few months (to other person). However, the ultimate decision lies in his hands. He is just confused whether we would make a good match or not. 男友劫比透，表面上情格是太鋼性的人，又有些不太穩定。 但內心還不錯，劫比在干，官殺在支，制之不及， 會常有太過監持自己，但事後又馬上後悔的事，都是制之不及結果 - This is right on! He has a very good heart but is not very stable sometimes. He gets moody too. And he would say something to his friends or family and later regret because he spoke too soon. 跟他想處絕對不能表面馬上硬著來，稍為給他一點時間，去思考後，就會有好結果， 基本上表面和內心差異非常的大，一定要給對方思考時間後，才會將好的結果出現。- This is also right on. I am a very soft person. I don't tell him what to do. I would lay out my suggestions or my opinions to him and for him to make a decision. He is not the type of person who can 硬著來的. He gets very upset if that's the case. In our current situation, he thinks that he will marry me (he hasn't decided yet). But he has an obligation to his parents to go meet other girls in Pakistan. But I will also pay more attention so that I won't force him to make decision soon. I have been very patient (over 2 1/2 years) and I think that's the best way to deal with everyone. 目前這是走非常好的流年，男友沒有任何問題。- Great, thanks for doing the reading! Do you think he will be a good husband and that we are compatible? In real life we are, but I was just wondering how the chart reads. You did mention that in my chart, I will have my biggest test next year regarding relationship. Do you also see the same in his? Do you think that we will make it through next year and then get married in 2006? Do you think that my career and money luck will be good as well? Sorry for all these questions, there is just so many things I am concerned about. Thanks for all of your help and patience! Warm regards.
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